Why some WOMEN CAN'T FIND A GOOD MAN (Part 1)

When some women say “a good man is hard to find,” what they really mean is that they don’t know where to look.  So if you’re a woman looking for a good man, I’m going to show you where to find him.  (And if you’re a good man, I’m going to help her to find you!)

There’s truth to the idea that the good men are already married. 

Stay with this thought. 

Where do you find the good married men?  Their actual location?  One of two places:  At home.  At work.  This doesn’t mean they don’t spend time with male friends every now and then.  But not too often.  Their two main locations show their mission and vision. 

This is where you will find good men:

LOOK BEHIND THE SCENES!

• Good men don’t draw attention to themselves.
• Good men aren’t focused on themselves.

Jesus, The Supreme Ultimate Man, said it best:  “The Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve.”

Good men are servants, plain and simple.

It doesn’t mean they don’t have high profile jobs that put them out front as leaders.  It means that even in those positions, they are not focused on themselves, or seeking to draws attention to themselves.

The good men, married or unmarried, are behind the scenes, at home or at work.  They are committed to serving God, their family, and their community.  They are not leaves floating on the winds of life, from club to club, party to party, hobby to hobby, woman to woman.   

They seek the greatness Jesus spoke of when He said this, “Whoever wishes to be great among you must be a servant.  Whoever wishes to be first must be a slave of all.”

Look behind the scenes, where you are, at your job, college, or neighborhood; your church or book store, wherever you are right now.  Look for the servants with a vision.  These are the good men.

Some women don’t know where to look for good men. 

But there is another reason they can’t find them.  (Click here to find out!)