Thursday, October 24, 2013

How to AVOID draining ARGUMENTS with the ones you love.

You know. You’ve done it. But you’ve forgotten it. Remember when you just knew you were going to argue, but for some reason, you didn’t? Three things happened: 1. You felt it coming: The crazy argument vibe. You know. The one where a useless argument is impending! 2. You decided, consciously or unconsciously, that you weren’t going to talk DURING THE CRAZY VIBE. 3. You said something like these simple words to the one shooting the crazy vibe: "I want to hear everything you’re feeling. Let’s wait and talk about it LATER." So....when is “later?” When you don’t feel the crazy vibe! You did it! You avoided staying up all night and getting absolutely no where except the 1st level of relationship hell! So: 1. Feel THE CRAZY VIBE from a far. 2. Decide NEVER to talk during that vibe. 3. Communicate this to THE CRAZY! (Or let someone communicate it TO YOU! IMAGINE THAT!!!...YOU’RE THE CRAZY!!!) What are you thinking? Is it this simple? If not, why not? If you agree, tell me, and share me. (COMMENT BELOW!)

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